CHAD MICHAELS, THE GREATEST CHER IMPERSONATOR EVER TO WALK THE EARTH
i have lost control of my life… not because i fucked up… but because i tried to help a friend stop abusing morphine… now i feel trapped and helpless… i have lost all my clients because i have spent the past month taking care of her… and now i cant fix it without kicking her out of my house like a total asshole…
I know you don’t know me, but since you’re posting for tumblr I figured I throw out my 2 cents. If you lost all your clients due to your sense as a decent human being, then maybe it happened for a reason. What that reason is, I couldn’t tell you, but if there is one thing I have come to learn, it is that nothing is random, and there is potential for good in every unfortunate experience, whether you find that good is entirely up to you. If it has gotten to the point where helping her is starting to hurt you mentally and financially, then you aren’t an asshole, you’re a human being. You are no good to her if you can no longer support yourself…in the long run, you are only one person doing the best he can by someone that he cares for. It’s your job to be her friend, and to support her, but there comes a time where you have to acknowledge that you can not do everything. And that is ok. There comes a time where asking people trained to help someone in your friends situation take over her recovery. And that is ok too.